Giving Thanks, 2020

I love Thanksgiving.  It has all the trappings of a celebratory holiday, food, good cheer, family, gratitude, all without the stress of Christmas.  This year, I celebrated a masked and social distanced Thanksgiving with my sister, my brother in law, my dear niece and nephew, and, of course, Maddie the dog. It was a sunnyContinue reading “Giving Thanks, 2020”

reflections on vulnerability

I have always been a self-disclosing person, and that has always facilitated strong one to one relationships, both with colleagues and friends.  It came naturally. I never really had to think deeply about vulnerability and what that means on a day to day, practical basis.  Now, in the midst of my transition, vulnerability has takenContinue reading “reflections on vulnerability”

listen

tuning is like an art like listening perhaps, and avocation to really hear beyond sound or even understanding but responding, atonement is to overcome the distance lying between separate selves—             it is no sacrifice             but awakening a door thrown open arms quickening to receive these sometimes gifts laid bare and to our hearts

Throw Your Hands up and Say Wee!

What a rollercoaster this shelter-in-place, social distancing ride has been! It only stands to reason in this three-ring-American Circus, all the sideshows notwithstanding, Covid-19 is the great-white-knuckler, the tilt-a-whirl, the crazy spinning cages of the Rock-O-Plane, the “Cages” in the vernacular, and we are all unwitting riders. It’s a bumpy, scary ride for many reasons.Continue reading “Throw Your Hands up and Say Wee!”